Standing up during sex

I'm just curious if there's a reason for this or if others experience this, but I find that sex positions that involve me standing seem to work best for endurance. Like if she's on the kitchen table or if she's standing and bent over.

 

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  • FrizFriz Posts: 441Member
    I'm jealous. I have come to the conclusion that female porn stars are tall, male porn stars are short, and/or both. I am a foot taller than my wife and it is very uncomfortable for me to do it standing up.
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  • Version3Version3 Still flying the known 'VersePosts: 1,622Member
    edited September 2013
    Wondering if you mean from a muscular perspective or a not coming perspective? 

    Makes sense to me that a plank position (missionary) is harder to maintain muscularly than just standing. As for staying power, I know I come much more easily from a BJ if I'm standing than if I'm on my back.

    Clear as mud!

    Personally I like any position where I have greater range and freedom of movement (i.e., kneeling or standing). Rate of thrust can be much higher, and it's less taxing, in those than in missionary.

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  • fredlessfredless Posts: 1,917Member
    I like standing better with her lying below me as I can pound her harder.  I know that's one of my wife's favorite positions as well.
  • simplegirlsimplegirl the SouthPosts: 2,521Member
    Friz said:

    I'm jealous. I have come to the conclusion that female porn stars are tall, male porn stars are short, and/or both. I am a foot taller than my wife and it is very uncomfortable for me to do it standing up.

    Both feet on the ground doesnt work here. We have a 9" difference. However, with FO drapped over counter top/table or laying on table/bed with the capitan standing equalizes heights well.

    I think missionary and several other positions require more muscles (different groups) and more endurance from supporting his own weight. Standing just doesnt have these issues.
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  • redheaded_womanredheaded_woman USAPosts: 3,467Member
    @fredless - So is this like her laying at the edge of the bed & you standing upright? And where are her legs? Because when we try that, I end up feeling like I'm not "doing" enough....like I can't get my hips into the action. Give me some insight into the male mind here: is it better if I don't "try" to get my hips involved in this particular position? I think my H likes it bc he can watch my tits so am I just overthinking it?
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  • fredlessfredless Posts: 1,917Member
    fredless - So is this like her laying at the edge of the bed & you standing upright? And where are her legs? Because when we try that, I end up feeling like I'm not "doing" enough....like I can't get my hips into the action. Give me some insight into the male mind here: is it better if I don't "try" to get my hips involved in this particular position? I think my H likes it bc he can watch my tits so am I just overthinking it?
    I'm standing at the edge of the bed.  My wife's ass is about 1/3 to 1/2 off of the bed and her legs are on my shoulders.  In that position, she can't move as much voluntarily but with her ass of the bed, gravity moves her quite a bit.  And, of course, I'm pounding her pretty good.  I also like her to keep her hands above her head so I can really watch her while I do this.  It's an excellent visual.

    We also do this with my wife on the ottoman.  Since it's much lower, it allows for an even more serious pounding.
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  • simplegirlsimplegirl the SouthPosts: 2,521Member
    @redheaded_woman I don't do much hip wise in that position but I feel I still play an important part with vocal feedback and hands. Hands wise I sometimes rub my breasts or curl my fingers around him at my entrance like a cock ring. He seems to not complain and I enjoy taking it like a good girl. But I too would like a guys opinion. DH rarely will tell me what he wants or likes.
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  • Joseph_KJoseph_K Posts: 129Member
    Friz said:
    I'm jealous. I have come to the conclusion that female porn stars are tall, male porn stars are short, and/or both. I am a foot taller than my wife and it is very uncomfortable for me to do it standing up.
    I bought thigh high boots, with 5 inch heels, for my wife which greatly help with the height difference. They look amazing too!  :D
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  • hoping4betterhoping4better Posts: 1,052Member
    In addition to upper body/core exhaustion/strain missionary thrusting also is the worst for PE...  Standing/kneeling relaxes all the muscles/nerves in your pelvis much more...
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  • TK421TK421 Posts: 1,108Member
    I'm with the rest of the guys who pull the wife to the edge of the bed and then stand on the floor to fuck away. It's a good switch from missionary on the bed plus it allows me to move her legs around in various positions and sometimes to the koala position where I hook my arms underneath her knees and lift her off the bed to fuck her in mid air. Hot DAMN, that's a great position!
  • markmark new yorkPosts: 102Member
    Slipangle said:
    I'm just curious if there's a reason for this or if others experience this, but I find that sex positions that involve me standing seem to work best for endurance. Like if she's on the kitchen table or if she's standing and bent over.
    Doggier style is an easy position to make last a long time.  It takes less effort to thrust back and forth than if laying in bed where the mattress hinders movement and laying down takes more effort for thrusting.  Same goes for standing next to a table or chair for some other positions. 
  • markmark new yorkPosts: 102Member
    @fredless - So is this like her laying at the edge of the bed & you standing upright? And where are her legs? Because when we try that, I end up feeling like I'm not "doing" enough....like I can't get my hips into the action. Give me some insight into the male mind here: is it better if I don't "try" to get my hips involved in this particular position? I think my H likes it bc he can watch my tits so am I just overthinking it?
    Re: insight into the male mind.  These positions give less hip movement by my wife, but I can thrust in very well and forcefully.  I love holding her ass/hips while thrusting in, particularly doggy style.  But when she's laying with her ass partly off the bed, legs on my shouders, her pussy is tight and I again can thrust so hard and deep with such great tightness around my dick.    Re. hip movement.  My woman's hip movements can drives me wild.  I could hardly believe what it did to me the first time my woman moved her hips around after I slid my dick into her.  I'll never forget that.  So, yes, believe what you hear about a woman's hip movements, they do almost unimaginable things to a man.  The different positions are just so there is fun variation.  A position not used in a while is hotter than if used very frequently.        
  • simplegirlsimplegirl the SouthPosts: 2,521Member
    @mark Sweet. I say all that, thanks for the affirmation. :)
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  • Captain_HammerCaptain_Hammer OzPosts: 204Member
    Interesting thought for FO's, are you your mans best fuck ever?
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