For a little background on where I am, here is the last thread I posted where my wife said she was "over sex."http://marriedmansexlife.vanillaforums.com/discussion/6497/wife-said-she-is-over-sex#latest
Last night we went out and had a great night together, ended with some sex. Here's everything that led up to it. Wednesday I initiated. Got a hard no, said she wasn't feeling good down there. Thursday another no because she had too much work to do but during Thursday dinner, she pulled the top of her shirt away to flash me a nipple but showed she was wearing a Bistol Six nippie cover. Which I love. Which she knows I love. I tell her I need to see her in that. She says "I'll leave it on for tomorrow."
Which brings me to last night. Parents stay home with the kid and we ride out bikes to a new bar close by. Have one drink, have a great time. Ride to another bar and get dinner, each have one more drink. More great conversation. Some hugging and kissing while we're in line. Just a happily married couple.
Ride bikes to third location, a comedy club where a bunch of our friends are. We have two drinks there, talk with friends and basically enjoy being out. Around midnight we ride our bikes home. My parents say good night and leave, the kid is asleep so we get down to the sex.
Start off light and fun. We're cracking jokes. She's a little tipsy after 4 drinks. We starting F-ing. She says it hurts and asks for more lube. I comply. I can tell she's hurting so I speed things up and finish. To my surprise, she wants to keep going and asks for the vibrator. I give it to her and lay beside her stroking. (here's a benefit of Cialis) 5 minutes later I'm hard again and ready to go. I ask if she wants it. She says yes, use lots of lube. I do. We're missionary. She wants to flip so we do.
Here's where it gets weird: Since it's going to be my second orgasm in 30 minutes I go fast and hard, and she's moaning like she likes it. I finish and collapse beside her but now she's crying. Not sobbing but has tears and is whimpering a little. I figure I went too hard. Go downstairs and clean up, get water. I come back upstairs and now she's on the floor naked, tears in her eyes. She says she couldn't O and doesn't know what's wrong.
Then the full on crying begins. I ask if there is anything I can do, she shakes her head. I say maybe you were tired or stressed??? She says "I don't know...." while crying....then "I feel like such an object." Gets up and goes downstairs to sleep in the guest room. I was totally shocked by this response since it totally didn't align with the type of night we had. I figured it was best to let her go and not say another word.
Of course, I got hardly any sleep last night. She's still passed out. Thoughts???? Maybe I was too rough? What the hell???? I'm just totally confused and not sure what to do next. Bring it up? Let it go?