Warning - this may come off a bit crass to some of the FO's. You have been warned.
Like I have in the past, I wanted to share a recent experience as a way of documenting my MAP growth. And I know sharing these experiences help us guys learn from each other.
We are in bed and start getting intimate. Stroking, touching, etc... I really wanted some Oral sex so I told her so. No hinting or asking. Just told her what I wanted. So she gets to it. The more she gets into it the more I get into it and it starts a positive feedback loop. She seems to really get turned on when she see's the effect her sucking has on me.
Finally she can't take it anymore and she says to me: I need you inside me now. She starts to roll onto her back. I tell her, no. I want her on top. So she follows my lead and goes on top.
She's soaking wet. And the heat is turning up even higher. I feel it building inside me and she feels it also.
Suddenly, she asks me if I want to go in her ass. Totally from her own initiative. I tell her soon. I did want her ass but I wanted to continue what we were doing a little longer since it felt so great.
Finally I stop and tell her to get the lube...
Just before I orgasmed I looked her straight in the eye, held her gaze for a second, and then told her: "You gave yourself to me in every way possible." She said "I know" and smiled. And then I erupted.
What is interesting to me is that - as great as the hat trick sex was - I feel even more moved or gratified by the fact that she was so into me, so turned on by me, so wanting to please me as much as she could that she did, indeed, give me herself in every way she possibly could.
This, by the way, from the ultimate good girl.
We have come such a long way in our relationship both in and out of the bedroom that it is striking.
Confidence, leadership, muscles, strength, dressing better, keeping her fire stoked constantly (via sexting, firmly kissing/hair pulling whenever I want, cocky funny innuendo, etc...), and telling her straight out what I want has made all the difference.