I'm risking starting yet another thread here.
I have the feeling this may all be in my head and I'm making a bigger deal out of it than it really is.
Does anyone have any thoughts on having sex with your spouse while the emotional connection is missing? I've always felt that the connection was important or necessary for me to be able to have an enjoyable sex life with @Ron.
; However the last while has shown that to not be the case with us.
I'm not exactly sure how to explain it, I still very much love Ron and he loves me but there's still very much a distance between us for obvious reasons. Shouldn't this impact my enjoyment of sex?
This weekend was a good example, ton's of great sex, but it wasn't like "making love" it was really just well, fucking. It just kinda feels like we're just getting each other off. Or "one night standing" each other over and over again.
Should I just stop over analyzing things and enjoy it for what it is? The connection will come back right?