Stunned

deciduous

This morning we were involved in husband and wife activities.

:)

At the beginning, she played a little game she has done in the past a few times.

"What if I don't let you?"

In the past, I usually shrugged that off, but not in a dominant way, usually in a playful manner, and it has never resulted in no happyfuntime.

I would usually say something along the lines of "I have never had an unsatisfied customer" or "I prefer willing participants".

This time I said, in a rather growly way whilst burying her head in my quite well developed pecs...

"Then I'm just gonna take what I want"

At this point, I almost couldn't believe that came out of my mouth. I didn't stop, but my mind was racing...wow, did I just do that?

Her response FLOORED me.

"I think I would like that. A LOT"

Holy crap. This manosphere stuff isn't 50% bullshit after all.

Maybe only 25%.

The fact that she wants the OLD me, the guy that had her as #2 in a soft harem 13 years ago, rather than the guy I figured made more sense with 2 young kids...

Good lord.

AWACS

Welcome to the real world, as opposed to the world we all thought was real...

sapper

rock and roll baby! 

You better seal the deal before she thinks you're not real!

Mr_Noisehead

I can relate- there have been a number of times when I've inadvertently let fly some proper alpha in pre red-pill days where I thought "Really? Really?" to the response that ensued. Post red-pill they make sense but during my blue pill days it seemed like reality was just seriously taking a day off on those days.

AlphaBeta_spectrum

Husband and Wife activities? You mean fucking! Yeah cause even animals do that shit.

CommonMan

After taking the red pill, hearing something like "What if I don't let you?" sounds like an obvious invitation. Blue-pill CommonMan would have been clueless. Now that I think about it, why else would a woman say that?

deciduous

This might sound strange.

"Game" is something I have always had, just naturally. Women were never a problem.

I married my wife because she was so strong. So utterly unwilling to put up with bullshit. She was so unlike all other candidates. She made the cut.

Ahhh...pedestal craftily installed.

I can't classify my marriage as bad, rocky, or even shaky. It is pretty damn good.

I have always lived my life looking one step ahead, ready to land on my feet no matter what.

My job involves anticipation of potential complications and managing them, I do this naturally.

It didn't take much for me to notice subtle changes, and not changes for the better, so I went looking for answers.

There was no way this was something wrong with ME, I thought.

There couldn't be something wrong with my wife, she was the winner, she was different.

Ahhh...

It seems I lost some "frame" as they call it. And with it, likely a bit of loss of some respect from the wife.

And perhaps the bitterest portion of the "red pill"...she is NOT in point of fact "different" than all the rest.

The only difference is, she is MINE, and all things that are mine get my best efforts with regard to care and maintenance, even if that means putting her in the proper place.

smh

JimDawg

@WastedYouth would it have worked 2 years ago? I mean regardless of whether you would have thought it would work at the time.

JCUK

Out of all the aspects of running the MAP, it is this sort of responsive behaviour that still astounds me.

I can understand women's responses to physical fitness, the captain role, big earners etc, it makes logical sense. But when my wife says "no" and then "does" the complete opposite of what she said, it scrambles my brain (in a good way), and I fucking love it!

Serenity

Last Night.

Me:  I don't want to.

Him:  I don't care.

AWACS

@Serenity: @CaptainReynolds is on a roll!

Pro move sir, pro move ;)

Serenity

@AWACS  It would be nicer to want to want to.

AWACS

@Serenity: lolololol stop complaining woman. You know how many women there are out there who want to want to fuck their beta husbands, but don't actually want to? Would you change places with them? Nope, didn't think so. 

Serenity

LOL @AWACS I think I might still be in that first category.

AWACS

@Serenity: that's not what you just said. By the sound of it he yanked a reaction out of your unwilling body and mind and you got into it. True or false?

Serenity

Oh, all right, smarty pants.  :P

AWACS

God, being right is a good feeling ;)

KatherineKelly

I cannot think of anything better than being ravished by the man you love.

Men are so damn lucky that their sexuality is not so dependant on this. They want to be wanted but they don't NEED to be wanted.

I love my sexuality but I also hate it because I have no control over it but always must wait for the man to turn it on.

My whole body is trying to tell him to ravish me but I cannot tell him to because than I will not want sex because than it will not be him ravishing me but him PRETENDING to ravish me.

God is a trickster that uses us for his own amusement and I have the same relationship with God as men.

I love them both while always being furious with them both. Oh well, such is life.

Kar

Serenity said:

@AWACS  It would be nicer to want to want to.

You will. But I hope Captain takes you one way or the other and doesn't worry about it.

DrumHorn

This sounds great.  I can't wait to try it but I'm not sure if my wife is ready for something like this.  

* sex was painful the first 3 years of our marriage

* she's afraid of being horny

* she thinks "scheduling sex" is a turn on

* she does not respond to dominant sex

* she freaks out about buying warming oil

* she really freaks out when considering getting TRT done.

* she's Low T and therefore doesn't feel much pleasure during sex.

* she's starting sex therapy next month to deal with all of the above

So hit Agree if you think I should wait until she likes sex more first.  

Or hit Disagree if you think I should I go ahead and try to dominate her tonight.

NeoTheLeo

KatherineKelly said:

My whole body is trying to tell him to ravish me but I cannot tell him to because than I will not want sex because than it will not be him ravishing me but him PRETENDING to ravish me.

All I can say is, women....8-}