What do you think about your wife giving you a HJ while watching TV?
I guess you could look at it as a low quality HJ since she's focusing on something else besides the really big issue at hand.On the other hand, you could look at it as something productive and enjoyable for you that she could do while watching a TV program. Sometimes, there doesn't seem to be a lot of time for sex or HJs, but
if you both feel like TV or a movie, this is killing two birds with one
If you like long, drawn-out HJs, you can watch Gone with the Wind instead of a sit-com.