How to Guide: Deep Throat Without Gagging

LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member

At @sf64's probably half-joking suggestion on another thread, I'll share how I learned to suppress my gag reflex so as to be able to deep throat my husband's wonderfully handsome cock (I swear I must be ovulating!  His penis is all I can think about today!) without all the disgusting gagging you see in a lot of porn videos.

My husband straddled my shoulders and basically fucked my mouth, while I closed my eyes and relaxed my entire body, including my throat muscles.  I kept my hands on the front of his hips so I could stop if he went too far or too fast for me.  Once I was fully relaxed, I was able to slide my hands around to his ass and guide the speed and depth of penetration.

This position got his penis at the right angle so the pressure was even on the entire inside of my throat.  Also, since initially I was just laying there, it was easy to relax, which is very important when first working on the gag reflex.

It only took 2 - 3 weeks to learn to deep throat without gagging using this method.  I've known of women who took 3 - 6 months to learn this, but in the cases I know of, they were practicing on inanimate objects like dildos or cucumbers.  The advantage of using a dildo, cucumber, or banana for this is that you can surprise your husband with your new BJ skills.  For me, that wouldn't have worked, because I can't stand the thought of putting something like a cucumber in my throat.  Yech!  My husband enjoyed me practicing on him, plus being extremely aroused at the time helped me suppress the gag reflex in less time.

 

 

In case anyone was wondering, I'm sure the Elves in Rivendell were extraordinarily proficient at gagless deep throating.

 

 

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  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    For the other FO's who can do gagless deep throating, feel free to share any tips you may have.
    AlphaBelle
  • Raspberry_roseRaspberry_rose USAPosts: 1,025Silver Member
    First, thanks for sharing! I think I get the idea, but finding the mechanics a wee bit confusing. Were you kneeling in front of him, or lying down on the bed at the time?
  • WendyWendy Posts: 1,371Gold Women Zen Garden
    I can go fairly deep.  Do you mean you go all the way down to the base, like the balls?  or does that depend on size? 

    I have to say, I've never done his legs straddling my shoulders.  Always something new on this forum!  Thanks!
  • Mrs_JMrs_J Posts: 315Member
    I've read that swallowing when he hits the back of your throat is good technique...I'm trying but not able to, is this possible? He's rather large, so I'm not sure if that's the problem or if I'm not doing it right??
    Any FO's with any experience with this?
  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    I was lying down on the bed.  I was pregnant and on bed rest, so the point of this position was initially so he could do the work when I wasn't able to.  I had decided to learn to deep throat without gagging, and quickly realized the advantages of this position for achieving my purpose.
  • helioxheliox Posts: 229Member
    Try hanging your head off the edge of the bed facing the ceiling while he's standing up. Allows for you to relax your body and throat muscles while lying down, but also allows for a more complimentary angle (for most). You get a bit of a head rush sometimes, but it works.

    Also, a glass or two of wine never hurt.
    Karl_Hungus
  • girl4girl4 AusPosts: 346Silver Member

    I can't do it in the position you mention (lying on bed, him straddling). If my mouth/throat isn't in a fairly straight path (my chin up/head tilted back) he just hits the back of my mouth (this is regular BJ and I don't gag). It's relatively deep, but it's not into my throat.

    I find the easiest position to be underneath him while he stands (I'm sitting/kneeling on the floor) and I'm facing the same way he is. This allows his cock to follow down into my throat's natural bend (which is minimised as my head is tilted so far back). I literally have to pull him down and force his cock into my throat (it's tighter than my mouth and for me it's a distinctive 'push into' feeling). I usually only gag when he's on the way out.

    Another position we do it what @heliox said.

    Or:  he is lying on the bed, I am kneeling next to him - my knees are up near his chest/shoulders - so kind of an offside 69 position. This means I am stretching toward his cock and coming from a lower position so my head must tilt up/back - creating the 'path'. If I'm too much 'above' him, my head is not tilted back enough and he'll hit the back of my mouth. I tend to gag the most in this position. I much prefer him being above me.

    Karl_Hungus
  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    Wendy said:
    I can go fairly deep.  Do you mean you go all the way down to the base, like the balls?  or does that depend on size? 

    I have to say, I've never done his legs straddling my shoulders.  Always something new on this forum!  Thanks!

    Yeah, if you control the gag reflex, you should be able to take it all the way, no matter what size he is.  Once the head gets into your throat, past the part where you'd normally gag, it doesn't really matter how much more there is.

    His legs weren't really straddling my shoulders.  He was on his knees above me while I was laying on the bed. 

    Where exactly he (your he, not mine) is positioned is going to depend on his and your body types.  The important thing is not to have more pressure on one side of the inside of your throat.  The pressure's got to be even all around.  That's why you've got to get the angle just right.  After you get used to doing it, the pressure thing isn't so important, and you can do different positions.

    Relaxing all over is pretty important too at first.  That helps you relax your throat muscles, if you aren't used to doing that.  That's another reason why laying down and letting him do the work helped.  Again, not so important once you are used to deep throating.

    Wendy
  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    Mrs_J said:
    I've read that swallowing when he hits the back of your throat is good technique...I'm trying but not able to, is this possible? He's rather large, so I'm not sure if that's the problem or if I'm not doing it right?? Any FO's with any experience with this?


    I don't know.  I've never done that.  There's always room to improve, isn't there?  ;)

    Mrs_J
  • PhoenixDownPhoenixDown TejasPosts: 10,117Gold Women
    heliox said:
    Try hanging your head off the edge of the bed facing the ceiling while he's standing up. Allows for you to relax your body and throat muscles while lying down, but also allows for a more complimentary angle (for most). You get a bit of a head rush sometimes, but it works.

    Also, a glass or two of wine never hurt.
    I do this, but laying on my stomach, and it seems to work best for me. I've tried the position @Linanati described, and it hurt my jaw and I couldn't take very much because he'd hit the top of my mouth/back of my throat... Also felt like my teeth were getting in the way. Maybe we're doing it wrong?
  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    edited November 2012
    @girl4 and @RedPillWifey  I'm betting part of it is how his penis points when erect.  Out, up towards his stomach, down, I'm sure it all makes a difference as to which position you can manage to take it in your throat.
  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    @Linanati How far back is deep throating? Can you describe this? I don't know if I am doing this already or if I can add something new to my BJ repertoire. :) I'm dealing with a length/girth issue, so while the thought of going to his balls is exciting, he would literally have to go down my throat, not just hit the back. Is this what you mean by "deep throating?"


    Deep throating is all the way, balls-deep.  Length shouldn't matter.  Once you're past the gag reflex, you're past the gag reflex.  It doesn't matter how much more there is after that.  And yes, this means you're taking him actually into your throat.  It feels strange at first, but it's actually a very arousing sensation.

    Girth could be a problem if he's exceptionally wide and/or your throat is really small.  You might just not be relaxing enough though.  It's best to do it while extremely aroused.  I know it sounds wierd to say that you should relax when you are dying for his dick, but it actually works.  I think because it's a submissive thing, to relax, trust him, and take as much as he puts in your mouth.

  • LinanatiLinanati Posts: 1,606Member
    edited November 2012

    @Mrs_J

    Well, I started it while on bed rest, but I can't remember if I actually managed it successfully before or after having the baby.  I asked my husband, and he can't remember either.  We're both thinking it must have been the week after having the baby.

    And I don't watch Golden Girls, not ever.  I mostly read romance novels while on bed rest.

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